"An old woman boarded a Bus to Lagos from Calabar and told the driver: "Driver, please, when we reach Benin tell me o."
The driver nodded and then she shouted again: "My children, una hear wetin I tell am?"
Everybody responded: "Yes, Mama."
On the long journey to Lagos, everybody slept off and forgot about Mama's request.
After several hours of driving and then close to Lagos, with Benin about four hours behind, the old woman asked: "Driver, you never reach Benin since?" "Ooooh!" the driver exclaimed, "Mama, Benin is like four hours behind us."
"Ah!", the woman shouted and started crying, saying: "Take me back to Benin, abeg, I no wan wahala o." Considering the age of the woman, the passengers agreed that the driver should turn back to Benin.
On getting to Benin, the driver came down, opened the door and told the woman she was in Benin.
The woman simply opened her hand bag, brought out two tablets of Panadol and swallowed them with water. She then smiled and said:
"Thank you, my son. Na my daughter say when I reach Benin, make I drink two tablets of Panadol😳😳😳
"I don take am now, oya make we dey go Lagos..." if u ar d driver what will u do?😄😄😄😂😂😂
As you smile and laugh to this joke, may laughter never depart from You!!!👏👏👏
Laughter is a good medicine""
FACE YOUR FUTURE WITHOUT FEAR
Wednesday, 29 August 2018
IT'S HARD TO BE A TEACHER AT TIMES
*Teacher:* ''Construct a sentence using the word "sugar''
*Pupil:* ''I drank tea this morning.''
*Teacher:* ''Where is the word sugar.''
*Pupil:* ''It is already in the tea..!!''
😂😂😂😂😂😂
*TEACHER*: Our topic for today is Photosynthesis.
*TEACHER* : What is photosynthesis class?
*Student*: Photosynthesis is our topic today.
*Not Easy to be a Teacher !!!!!*
*TEACHER* : John is climbing a tree to pick some
mangoes. ( Begin the sentence with Mangoes)
*Student* : Mangoes, John is coming to pick you...
*TEACHER* : What do you call mosquitoes in your language?
*Student*: We don't call them, they come on their own...
*TEACHER* : Name the nation people hate most
*Student*: Exami-nation...
*TEACHER* : How can we keep our school clean?
*Student*: By staying at home...
😬😬😬
Have a great week ahead!! A TEACHER AT TIMES.*..
*Teacher:* ''Construct a sentence using the word "sugar''
*Pupil:* ''I drank tea this morning.''
*Teacher:* ''Where is the word sugar.''
*Pupil:* ''It is already in the tea..!!''
😂😂😂😂😂😂
*TEACHER*: Our topic for today is Photosynthesis.
*TEACHER* : What is photosynthesis class?
*Student*: Photosynthesis is our topic today.
*Not Easy to be a Teacher !!!!!*
*TEACHER* : John is climbing a tree to pick some
mangoes. ( Begin the sentence with Mangoes)
*Student* : Mangoes, John is coming to pick you...
*TEACHER* : What do you call mosquitoes in your language?
*Student*: We don't call them, they come on their own...
*TEACHER* : Name the nation people hate most
*Student*: Exami-nation...
*TEACHER* : How can we keep our school clean?
*Student*: By staying at home...
😬😬😬
*Pupil:* ''I drank tea this morning.''
*Teacher:* ''Where is the word sugar.''
*Pupil:* ''It is already in the tea..!!''
😂😂😂😂😂😂
*TEACHER*: Our topic for today is Photosynthesis.
*TEACHER* : What is photosynthesis class?
*Student*: Photosynthesis is our topic today.
*Not Easy to be a Teacher !!!!!*
*TEACHER* : John is climbing a tree to pick some
mangoes. ( Begin the sentence with Mangoes)
*Student* : Mangoes, John is coming to pick you...
*TEACHER* : What do you call mosquitoes in your language?
*Student*: We don't call them, they come on their own...
*TEACHER* : Name the nation people hate most
*Student*: Exami-nation...
*TEACHER* : How can we keep our school clean?
*Student*: By staying at home...
😬😬😬
Have a great week ahead!! A TEACHER AT TIMES.*..
*Teacher:* ''Construct a sentence using the word "sugar''
*Pupil:* ''I drank tea this morning.''
*Teacher:* ''Where is the word sugar.''
*Pupil:* ''It is already in the tea..!!''
😂😂😂😂😂😂
*TEACHER*: Our topic for today is Photosynthesis.
*TEACHER* : What is photosynthesis class?
*Student*: Photosynthesis is our topic today.
*Not Easy to be a Teacher !!!!!*
*TEACHER* : John is climbing a tree to pick some
mangoes. ( Begin the sentence with Mangoes)
*Student* : Mangoes, John is coming to pick you...
*TEACHER* : What do you call mosquitoes in your language?
*Student*: We don't call them, they come on their own...
*TEACHER* : Name the nation people hate most
*Student*: Exami-nation...
*TEACHER* : How can we keep our school clean?
*Student*: By staying at home...
😬😬😬
Friday, 10 August 2018
Couldn't stop laughing
FEEL THIS JOKE!
``` Two little boys stole a big bag of oranges from a neighbor & decided to go to a quiet place to share the lot equally.
One of them suggested the nearby cemetery.
As they were jumping over the gate to enter the cemetery, two oranges🍊🍊 fell out of the big bag but they didn't bother to pick them since they had enough in the bag.
Few minutes later, a drunkard on his way from a bar, passed near the cemetery gate & heard a voice saying: "One For Me, One For You, One For Me, One For You".....
He immediately sobered up & ran as fast as he could to a Church nearby, for the priest.......................
"Father, pls come with me. Come & witness God & satan sharing corpses at the cemetery"......
They both ran back to the cemetery gate & the voice continued: "One For Me, One For You, One For Me, One For You'............
Suddenly, the voice stopped counting & said:
"What About The Two At The Gate?" Let's get them .........
You should see the marathon..🏃🏾🏃🏾
The priest almost ran pass the church gate shouting:"We Are Not Dead Yet oohh!!!".
.... Now You're laughing... .
Don't be selfish, send it to your friends. Put a smile on someone's face..😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂```
``` Two little boys stole a big bag of oranges from a neighbor & decided to go to a quiet place to share the lot equally.
One of them suggested the nearby cemetery.
As they were jumping over the gate to enter the cemetery, two oranges🍊🍊 fell out of the big bag but they didn't bother to pick them since they had enough in the bag.
Few minutes later, a drunkard on his way from a bar, passed near the cemetery gate & heard a voice saying: "One For Me, One For You, One For Me, One For You".....
He immediately sobered up & ran as fast as he could to a Church nearby, for the priest.......................
"Father, pls come with me. Come & witness God & satan sharing corpses at the cemetery"......
They both ran back to the cemetery gate & the voice continued: "One For Me, One For You, One For Me, One For You'............
Suddenly, the voice stopped counting & said:
"What About The Two At The Gate?" Let's get them .........
You should see the marathon..🏃🏾🏃🏾
The priest almost ran pass the church gate shouting:"We Are Not Dead Yet oohh!!!".
.... Now You're laughing... .
Don't be selfish, send it to your friends. Put a smile on someone's face..😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂```
Wednesday, 8 August 2018
ONE BAD EGG
One time in the kitchen, I was making egg stew. My aunt came over (whose name I cannot mention because I don't want a family meeting😅) and said, "let me tell you a story".
She is the wife of a missionary and so often hosts people in their home. She said one of those days, late at night, they had visitors. It was past dinner time and there was no cooked food, so she went into the kitchen to figure out what to quickly fix for her hungry guests.
After searching, she got some rice, few stew items and just a tin of sardines, nothing else. When the stew was halfway, she remembered she had a few eggs kept for breakfast and decided to add them up directly into the stew. She broke egg after egg, I think 3, and on the last egg into the stew... it was a rotten egg.
It was too late to get rid of it and the whole pot of stew smelled so bad she had to throw everything away and face her hungry guests with the news. One bad egg.
When you read bios or the news of late, you'll notice that there are people who lived such great lives... excelled in their fields/talents and got everything going on. And then one bad trait/lifestyle/activity brings everything tumbling down. I'll give you 3 examples.
Whitney Houston. Amazing voice!!! And I guess she was a great woman too. She is the only woman to have had 7 consecutive number one Billboard Hot 100 songs.
The bad egg was the drugs, something she couldn't deal with... in time. It destroyed a lot in her life and ultimately led to her death. One bad egg
Bill Cosby. I loved his show!!! It represented to me the black culture that was positive and inspirational. The multiple sexual harassment scandals brought everything tumbling down. Now he has been classified as a sexual predator. Shows were cancelled, honorary degrees were taken. Over 50 of his honorary degrees have been rescinded. One bad egg.
Lastly, Justine Sacco. She was senior director of corporate communications at IAC. Sacco was fired after she sent an inappropriate tweet right before boarding a flight to South Africa.
“Going to Africa. Hope I don’t get AIDS. Just kidding. I’m white!”
Perhaps she's made those "jokes" before or similarly said such stuff all over. Perhaps she spilled subtle racism in her talks here and there. Never dealt with such a horrible mindset and now was going open. It cost her a deserved social media uproar, loss of reputation, global embarrassment... and her job.
And hey, we all have those. The bad eggs I mean. Those parts of our lives we categorize under "my weakness" and leave unattended. The little foxes we ignore and refuse to address. The unattended anger, excessive alcoholism, excessive laziness, chronic lying, disloyalty, uncontrolled lust, carelessness, abusive tendencies, hypocrisy, pretentiousness, backbiting, stealing, envy, covetousness, nepotism,... you know what you battle.
My aunt's story was to advise me to always break eggs separately before adding them to my sauce. To beat them up in a separate bowl so that at least if one is bad, only your eggs are ruined, and not your whole dish.
Fight your demons now. Tackle your "weaknesses" before you thirst for the limelight. Don't shelve them and assume they don't exist. Dedicate time to combating them before they are "added" to all you have strived to achieve in life. Fight them before they bring harm to people around you and cause inexonerable pain
"The excuses won't cut it once the bad egg gets into the stew"
She is the wife of a missionary and so often hosts people in their home. She said one of those days, late at night, they had visitors. It was past dinner time and there was no cooked food, so she went into the kitchen to figure out what to quickly fix for her hungry guests.
After searching, she got some rice, few stew items and just a tin of sardines, nothing else. When the stew was halfway, she remembered she had a few eggs kept for breakfast and decided to add them up directly into the stew. She broke egg after egg, I think 3, and on the last egg into the stew... it was a rotten egg.
It was too late to get rid of it and the whole pot of stew smelled so bad she had to throw everything away and face her hungry guests with the news. One bad egg.
When you read bios or the news of late, you'll notice that there are people who lived such great lives... excelled in their fields/talents and got everything going on. And then one bad trait/lifestyle/activity brings everything tumbling down. I'll give you 3 examples.
Whitney Houston. Amazing voice!!! And I guess she was a great woman too. She is the only woman to have had 7 consecutive number one Billboard Hot 100 songs.
The bad egg was the drugs, something she couldn't deal with... in time. It destroyed a lot in her life and ultimately led to her death. One bad egg
Bill Cosby. I loved his show!!! It represented to me the black culture that was positive and inspirational. The multiple sexual harassment scandals brought everything tumbling down. Now he has been classified as a sexual predator. Shows were cancelled, honorary degrees were taken. Over 50 of his honorary degrees have been rescinded. One bad egg.
Lastly, Justine Sacco. She was senior director of corporate communications at IAC. Sacco was fired after she sent an inappropriate tweet right before boarding a flight to South Africa.
“Going to Africa. Hope I don’t get AIDS. Just kidding. I’m white!”
Perhaps she's made those "jokes" before or similarly said such stuff all over. Perhaps she spilled subtle racism in her talks here and there. Never dealt with such a horrible mindset and now was going open. It cost her a deserved social media uproar, loss of reputation, global embarrassment... and her job.
And hey, we all have those. The bad eggs I mean. Those parts of our lives we categorize under "my weakness" and leave unattended. The little foxes we ignore and refuse to address. The unattended anger, excessive alcoholism, excessive laziness, chronic lying, disloyalty, uncontrolled lust, carelessness, abusive tendencies, hypocrisy, pretentiousness, backbiting, stealing, envy, covetousness, nepotism,... you know what you battle.
My aunt's story was to advise me to always break eggs separately before adding them to my sauce. To beat them up in a separate bowl so that at least if one is bad, only your eggs are ruined, and not your whole dish.
Fight your demons now. Tackle your "weaknesses" before you thirst for the limelight. Don't shelve them and assume they don't exist. Dedicate time to combating them before they are "added" to all you have strived to achieve in life. Fight them before they bring harm to people around you and cause inexonerable pain
"The excuses won't cut it once the bad egg gets into the stew"
Monday, 6 August 2018
GUIDE FOR COMING ELECTION
*FOOD FOR THOUGHT*©
President is a *Muslim*.
Vice President, a *Pastor*.
Senate President, a *Muslim*.
Deputy Senate President, a *Christian*.
Speaker, a *Christian*.
Deputy Speaker, a *Muslim*.
109 Senators are either *Muslims* or *Christians*.
360 Federal Representatives are either *Christians* or *Muslims*.
36 governors must be *Muslims* or *Christians*.
Over 900 states Assembly Members are either *Christians* or *Muslims*.
774 local Councils Chairmen/Chairpersons are either *Muslims* or *Christians*.
Over 10,000 Councillors are either *Christians* or *Muslims*.
All the Ministers, Commissioners, Advisers, Special Assistants are *Muslims* or *Christians*.
*Now*,
The *Muslims* among them have visited *Mecca* to perform lesser *Hajj* and bigger *Hajj*. They travel to *Saudi Arabia* to Stone the *Satan* .🤔 They pray *5* 🖐🏿 times a day. They attend *Jumat* prayers and they fasted.
The *Christians* among them may have visited *Jerusalem*. They attend Churches every Sunday. They praise *Jesus* to high Heavens. They pay *tithes, plant seeds and make offerings*. They fast too and read *Psalms* daily.
*But*,
World bank says *$600billion* have been stolen by those running the affairs of our country (NIGERIA 🇳🇬) over the last decades. These people are Nigerian *Christians* and Nigerian *Muslims*. 🙆🏻♂
*So*,
What are they teaching them, in their respective *Churches* and *Mosques*? 🤷♂
*Very soon*,
*2019 IS APPROACHING DO NOT ALLOW ANY SELFISH POLITICIAN DECEIVE YOU WITH RELIGION.*
*MOST OF THEM ARE NOT GOOD CHRISTIANS AND MUSLIMS.*
THEY ARE UNITED IN LOOTING AND DIVIDING US, ALONG RELIGIOUS LINES.
*BE WARNED !!!*
President is a *Muslim*.
Vice President, a *Pastor*.
Senate President, a *Muslim*.
Deputy Senate President, a *Christian*.
Speaker, a *Christian*.
Deputy Speaker, a *Muslim*.
109 Senators are either *Muslims* or *Christians*.
360 Federal Representatives are either *Christians* or *Muslims*.
36 governors must be *Muslims* or *Christians*.
Over 900 states Assembly Members are either *Christians* or *Muslims*.
774 local Councils Chairmen/Chairpersons are either *Muslims* or *Christians*.
Over 10,000 Councillors are either *Christians* or *Muslims*.
All the Ministers, Commissioners, Advisers, Special Assistants are *Muslims* or *Christians*.
*Now*,
The *Muslims* among them have visited *Mecca* to perform lesser *Hajj* and bigger *Hajj*. They travel to *Saudi Arabia* to Stone the *Satan* .🤔 They pray *5* 🖐🏿 times a day. They attend *Jumat* prayers and they fasted.
The *Christians* among them may have visited *Jerusalem*. They attend Churches every Sunday. They praise *Jesus* to high Heavens. They pay *tithes, plant seeds and make offerings*. They fast too and read *Psalms* daily.
*But*,
World bank says *$600billion* have been stolen by those running the affairs of our country (NIGERIA 🇳🇬) over the last decades. These people are Nigerian *Christians* and Nigerian *Muslims*. 🙆🏻♂
*So*,
What are they teaching them, in their respective *Churches* and *Mosques*? 🤷♂
*Very soon*,
*2019 IS APPROACHING DO NOT ALLOW ANY SELFISH POLITICIAN DECEIVE YOU WITH RELIGION.*
*MOST OF THEM ARE NOT GOOD CHRISTIANS AND MUSLIMS.*
THEY ARE UNITED IN LOOTING AND DIVIDING US, ALONG RELIGIOUS LINES.
*BE WARNED !!!*
Why Ladies Hate Doctors
Before giving Anesthesia *Doctor* asked *Lady:* " Whats Your Age Madam? "
Lady : 24 years!
*Doctor :* Madam are you sure this is correct age? Because the amount of Anesthesia will depend upon your age.
*Lady :* 30 years!
*Doctor :* Look Madam.. it's upto u. Lesser amount of Anesthesia could wake u up during operation and u could go into comma as well.
*Lady :* 38..
*Doctor :* ( Once again..) Look Madam.. if u are not gonna tell me ur real age then wrong amount of Anesthesia will directly affect your livers and they may fail as well.
*Lady* , screamed and said : "49! That's it, I am done."
😳😵😲😮😧😦😯😑😐😶
Lady : 24 years!
*Doctor :* Madam are you sure this is correct age? Because the amount of Anesthesia will depend upon your age.
*Lady :* 30 years!
*Doctor :* Look Madam.. it's upto u. Lesser amount of Anesthesia could wake u up during operation and u could go into comma as well.
*Lady :* 38..
*Doctor :* ( Once again..) Look Madam.. if u are not gonna tell me ur real age then wrong amount of Anesthesia will directly affect your livers and they may fail as well.
*Lady* , screamed and said : "49! That's it, I am done."
😳😵😲😮😧😦😯😑😐😶
DIGNITY IS NOT NEGOTIABLE
One morning at our Law College, when our new teacher for "Introduction to Rights" entered the classroom, the first thing he did was to ask the name of a student who was seated on the first bench: "What is your name?"
"My name is Juan, Sir."
"Leave the classroom and I don't want to ever see you in my class ever!" screamed the unpleasant teacher.
Juan was bewildered. When he got hold of his senses, he got up quickly, collected his belongings and left the classroom.
All were scared and angry; however nobody spoke anything.
"Well, let's start the class," said the new teacher. "What purpose do the enacted laws serve?"
We were afraid, but slowly gained confidence and we began to answer his questions.
"So that there is order in our society."
"No!" the teacher shouted.
"So that people pay for their wrong actions?"
"No! Doesn't anybody here have enough brains to know the answer to this question?!" asked the teacher, sarcastically.
"So that there is justice," said a girl timidly.
"At last! One person who is not a complete moron! That's correct.... so that there is justice. And now, what is the use of justice?"
All of us were extremely uneasy with his rude attitude. However, we continued trying to answer....
"To safeguard human rights."
"Well, what more?" asked the teacher.
"To differentiate right from wrong and to reward the good."
"Ok, that's not bad. However, answer this question: Did I act correctly when expelling Juan from the classroom?"
All were quiet, nobody answered.
"I want a decisive and unanimous answer!" he shouted.
"No!" we all replied in unison.
"Then could you say I committed an injustice?"
"Yes!"
Then his voice softened and he asked, "And why did nobody do anything in that respect? So why do we need rules and laws if we don't have the necessary will to practice them? Each one of you has an obligation to do something when you witness an injustice. ALL of you! Do not stay quiet, never again! Go and call Juan," he said staring at me.
On that day, I received the most practical lesson in my course of Law. When we don't defend our rights, we lose our dignity, and dignity is not negotiable.
"My name is Juan, Sir."
"Leave the classroom and I don't want to ever see you in my class ever!" screamed the unpleasant teacher.
Juan was bewildered. When he got hold of his senses, he got up quickly, collected his belongings and left the classroom.
All were scared and angry; however nobody spoke anything.
"Well, let's start the class," said the new teacher. "What purpose do the enacted laws serve?"
We were afraid, but slowly gained confidence and we began to answer his questions.
"So that there is order in our society."
"No!" the teacher shouted.
"So that people pay for their wrong actions?"
"No! Doesn't anybody here have enough brains to know the answer to this question?!" asked the teacher, sarcastically.
"So that there is justice," said a girl timidly.
"At last! One person who is not a complete moron! That's correct.... so that there is justice. And now, what is the use of justice?"
All of us were extremely uneasy with his rude attitude. However, we continued trying to answer....
"To safeguard human rights."
"Well, what more?" asked the teacher.
"To differentiate right from wrong and to reward the good."
"Ok, that's not bad. However, answer this question: Did I act correctly when expelling Juan from the classroom?"
All were quiet, nobody answered.
"I want a decisive and unanimous answer!" he shouted.
"No!" we all replied in unison.
"Then could you say I committed an injustice?"
"Yes!"
Then his voice softened and he asked, "And why did nobody do anything in that respect? So why do we need rules and laws if we don't have the necessary will to practice them? Each one of you has an obligation to do something when you witness an injustice. ALL of you! Do not stay quiet, never again! Go and call Juan," he said staring at me.
On that day, I received the most practical lesson in my course of Law. When we don't defend our rights, we lose our dignity, and dignity is not negotiable.
Avoid Sudden Death at Night
Health Issue
Avoid Sudden Death at Night
Shared by a doctor ...
For those who get up at night to check the house or urinate.
Each individual must take note of three and a half minutes.
Because it is important? Three and a half minutes will greatly reduce the number of sudden deaths.
Often this happens: a person who still looks healthy has died at night.
We often hear stories of people saying: "Yesterday, I was chatting with him, why did he die suddenly?
The reason is that when you get up at night to go to the bathroom, it is often done in a hurry.
We immediately stop and the brain does not have blood flow.
Why are "Three 1/2 minutes" very important?
In the middle of the night, when the desire to urinate wakes you up, for example, the ECG pattern may change.
Because upon rising suddenly, the brain will be anemic and cause heart failure due to lack of blood.
You are advised to practice the "Three 1/2 minutes", which are:
1. When you wake up from sleep, stay in bed for the first minute and a half;
2. Sit in bed for the next 1/2 minute;
3. Lower your legs, sitting on the edge of the bed for the last half minute.
After three and a half minutes, you will not have anemic brain and the heart will not fail, reducing the possibility of a fall and sudden death.
Share with your family, friends and loved ones.
It can occur regardless of age; young or old.
Sharing is showing interest. If you already know, consider this as a review. "
Try to send this important Health Council to all your groups, and you / your family should also follow it.
Avoid Sudden Death at Night
Shared by a doctor ...
For those who get up at night to check the house or urinate.
Each individual must take note of three and a half minutes.
Because it is important? Three and a half minutes will greatly reduce the number of sudden deaths.
Often this happens: a person who still looks healthy has died at night.
We often hear stories of people saying: "Yesterday, I was chatting with him, why did he die suddenly?
The reason is that when you get up at night to go to the bathroom, it is often done in a hurry.
We immediately stop and the brain does not have blood flow.
Why are "Three 1/2 minutes" very important?
In the middle of the night, when the desire to urinate wakes you up, for example, the ECG pattern may change.
Because upon rising suddenly, the brain will be anemic and cause heart failure due to lack of blood.
You are advised to practice the "Three 1/2 minutes", which are:
1. When you wake up from sleep, stay in bed for the first minute and a half;
2. Sit in bed for the next 1/2 minute;
3. Lower your legs, sitting on the edge of the bed for the last half minute.
After three and a half minutes, you will not have anemic brain and the heart will not fail, reducing the possibility of a fall and sudden death.
Share with your family, friends and loved ones.
It can occur regardless of age; young or old.
Sharing is showing interest. If you already know, consider this as a review. "
Try to send this important Health Council to all your groups, and you / your family should also follow it.
PUT YOUR CAR KEYS BESIDE YOUR BED AT NIGHT
Tell your spouse, your childrden, your neighbors, your parents, your Dr's office, the check-out girl at the market, everyone you run across. Put your car keys beside your bed at night.
If you hear a noise outside your home or someone trying to get in your house, just press the panic button for your car. The alarm will be set off, and the horn will continue to sound until either you turn it off or the car battery dies.
This tip came from a neighborhood watch coordinator. Next time you come home for the night and you start to put your keys away, think of this: It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation. Test it. It will go off from most everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your battery runs down or until you reset it with the button on the key fob chain. It works if you park in your driveway or garage.
If your car alarm goes off when someone is trying to break into your house, odds are the burglar/rapist won't stick around. After a few seconds, all the neighbors will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that. And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car in a parking lot. The alarm can work the same way there. This is something that should really be shared with everyone. Maybe it could save a life or a sexual abuse crime.
P.S. I am sending this to everyone I know because I think it is fantastic. Would also be useful for any emergency, such as a heart attack, where you can't reach a phone. My Mom has suggested to my Dad that he carry his car keys with him in case he falls outside and she doesn't hear him. He can activate the car alarm and then she'll know there's a problem.
Please pass this on even IF you've read it before. It's a reminder.
If you hear a noise outside your home or someone trying to get in your house, just press the panic button for your car. The alarm will be set off, and the horn will continue to sound until either you turn it off or the car battery dies.
This tip came from a neighborhood watch coordinator. Next time you come home for the night and you start to put your keys away, think of this: It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation. Test it. It will go off from most everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your battery runs down or until you reset it with the button on the key fob chain. It works if you park in your driveway or garage.
If your car alarm goes off when someone is trying to break into your house, odds are the burglar/rapist won't stick around. After a few seconds, all the neighbors will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that. And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car in a parking lot. The alarm can work the same way there. This is something that should really be shared with everyone. Maybe it could save a life or a sexual abuse crime.
P.S. I am sending this to everyone I know because I think it is fantastic. Would also be useful for any emergency, such as a heart attack, where you can't reach a phone. My Mom has suggested to my Dad that he carry his car keys with him in case he falls outside and she doesn't hear him. He can activate the car alarm and then she'll know there's a problem.
Please pass this on even IF you've read it before. It's a reminder.
PSYCHOLOGY OF ANGER
A professor while teaching, asked his students, “Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?”
The students thought for awhile. One said, “because we lose our calmness.” But the professor asked again, “why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?”
The students gave some other reasons but none satisfied the professor.
Finally, he explained, "when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their heart psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance.”
Then the professor asked, ''what happens when two people fall in love?
They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their heart are psychologically close. The distance between them is very close.” The professor continued, "when they love each other even more, what happens? They don't speak, they only whisper and they even get closer to each other in their love.
Finally, they even need not to whisper, they only look at each other and that's all...” So, next time you shout on a loved one know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person's heart.
The students thought for awhile. One said, “because we lose our calmness.” But the professor asked again, “why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?”
The students gave some other reasons but none satisfied the professor.
Finally, he explained, "when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their heart psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance.”
Then the professor asked, ''what happens when two people fall in love?
They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their heart are psychologically close. The distance between them is very close.” The professor continued, "when they love each other even more, what happens? They don't speak, they only whisper and they even get closer to each other in their love.
Finally, they even need not to whisper, they only look at each other and that's all...” So, next time you shout on a loved one know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person's heart.
Do you use Gas for cooking?
Let this not happen to you... This could be a common mistake in any household. How it happened:The gas stove was on and cooking in progress. The lady observed some cockroaches near the sink and grabbed a can of insect killer and sprayed it near the gas stove, which was on. There was an explosion and in no time the poor woman was covered in flames, sustaining 65% burns. Her husband rushed in, tried to put out the flames and his clothes too caught fire. The husband is still in hospital, in the burns ward, still unaware that his wife was declared dead on arrival. Let us understand: - All insect killer sprays such as "Hit", "Mortein", "Heaven", "Raid", etc. have highly volatile and inflammable solvents. The atomized spray particles spread very rapidly and one spark is enough to ignite this explosive mixture with oxygen present in air. Please educate your family & friends about this and spread the word around.
CAR AIR CONDITIONING, VERY GOOD, BUT DANGEROUS. CAR OWNERS MUST READ THIS
No wonder more folks are dying everyday from cancer than ever before. We wonder where this stuff comes from, but here is an example that explains a lot of the cancer-causing incidents.
Many people are in their cars first thing in the morning and the last thing at night, seven days a week. As I am writing this piece, it makes me feel guilty and ill, wondering why one must die ignorantly.
Please pass this on to as many people as possible. Guess it's not too late to make some changes.
THE MESSAGE;
Please do NOT turn on A/C as soon as you enter your car. Make sure you open all the windows after you enter your car and turn ON the AC after a couple of minutes later.
HERE IS WHY;
According to research, the car dashboard, sofa and air freshener emit BENZENE a cancer-causing toxin (Carcinogen) .
Take time to observe the smell of heated plastic in your car, this smell In addition is causing cancer.
Benzene poisons your bones, causes anaemia and reduces white blood cells.
Prolonged exposure will cause leukaemia, increasing the risk of cancer. It can also cause miscarriage. Acceptable Benzene level indoors is 50 mg per sq ft.
A car parked indoors with windows closed will contain 400-800 mg of Benzene. If parked outdoors under the sun at a temperature above 60 degrees F, the Benzene level goes up to 2000-4000 mg, 40 times the acceptable level.
People who get into the car keeping windows closed will inevitably inhale, in quick succession, excesxsive amounts of the toxin.
Benzene is a toxin that affects your kidney and liver. What's worse, it is extremely difficult for your body to expel this toxic stuff.
So friends, please open the windows and door of your car - give time for the interior air to dispel the deadly stuff - before you enter.
Many people are in their cars first thing in the morning and the last thing at night, seven days a week. As I am writing this piece, it makes me feel guilty and ill, wondering why one must die ignorantly.
Please pass this on to as many people as possible. Guess it's not too late to make some changes.
THE MESSAGE;
Please do NOT turn on A/C as soon as you enter your car. Make sure you open all the windows after you enter your car and turn ON the AC after a couple of minutes later.
HERE IS WHY;
According to research, the car dashboard, sofa and air freshener emit BENZENE a cancer-causing toxin (Carcinogen) .
Take time to observe the smell of heated plastic in your car, this smell In addition is causing cancer.
Benzene poisons your bones, causes anaemia and reduces white blood cells.
Prolonged exposure will cause leukaemia, increasing the risk of cancer. It can also cause miscarriage. Acceptable Benzene level indoors is 50 mg per sq ft.
A car parked indoors with windows closed will contain 400-800 mg of Benzene. If parked outdoors under the sun at a temperature above 60 degrees F, the Benzene level goes up to 2000-4000 mg, 40 times the acceptable level.
People who get into the car keeping windows closed will inevitably inhale, in quick succession, excesxsive amounts of the toxin.
Benzene is a toxin that affects your kidney and liver. What's worse, it is extremely difficult for your body to expel this toxic stuff.
So friends, please open the windows and door of your car - give time for the interior air to dispel the deadly stuff - before you enter.
Your Toilet-Is your Best Laboratory
In Some Laboratories, One Cannot Help But Wonder Why People Queue Always. Understanding Your Stool Can Save You From Many Troubles.
You Maybe Skeptical As I Was When Dr. Espinet Taught Us This For The First Time in Sydney.
Your Stool is Your Health. No Wonder Major Laboratory Tests Are Done Using Your Stool.
I Have Proved This Beyond Doubt in Any Human I Have Come In Contact with Health wise.
While I Cannot Deliberate Upon Many Stools That People Pass Daily, Let Me Quickly Go Straight To Healthy Stool.
Consider These:
★★★Normal Healthy Stool★★★
★Should Take 3-Mins You Are Done.
★7 Mins 10mins Still Using The Toilet- You Are Not Well.
★Healthy Stool Should Be Long at Least One Foot Long.
★Light Yellow in Color Because of The Presence of Bile. Similar Colors Are ok.
★Bulk√
★Shaped or Shapeless √
★Brownish √
★Flouting on Water√
Why Should it Flout on Water?
★Because Bile is Oily, Oil is always Lighter Than Water. Meaning That Anything That Contains Oil Must Flout in Water√
Bile Stool is The Healthiest Stool Ever.
It Means Your Liver is Very Healthy.
★★Quality★★
It Should Be Soft. It is The Softness That Facilitate The Easy Passage.
All Is Not Well If You Experience The Following:
★If You Have News Papers/Magazines You Read In Your Toilet-Room, You're Not Well.
If You Browse on phone/Laptop While Toileting-You Are Constipating/ You Are Not Well.
Diameter (1½ or 2Inchis/is OK)
★Narrow or very Narrow pencil-like stool is Not A Good Sign Especially if It Mixes With Blood & Persists Up To 10-Days. It indicates Growth in The Colon. Tumor: Benign or Colon Cancer. (Stop All Animal Products Immediately and Go On Raw Food for Few Days)
White, Gray or Pale Color Stool Indicates:
Lack of Bile. (Cirrhosis, Hepatitis or Other Liver Diseases)
(Start Eating Peeled Apples, Watermelon and Pineapples to Cleanse The Liver)
Limit Cooked Food Drastically.
Tomatoes, Vegetables etc Present in Your Stool. Tells You That You Eat Hastily, Not Proper Mastication or Indigestion. (Chew Slowly and Eat With Grateful Heart. Don't Rush!!!)
Dry Hard Stool Meaning Your are Constipating. The Liver Has Extracted A Lot of Impurities Back To The System. Also Meaning Delayed Evacuation (You Need To Drink More Water)
★★Pieces Stool Stand For--
Complicated Digestive System.
You Have Food Allergies. Liver Problems.
★★Watery Stool Stands For Poor or Very Poor Digestive System.
★★Splash Stool Meaning Overeating, Wrong Combination of Foods, Eating Too Many Foods at Once. Compromised Digestive system.
★★Two/Three Days Without Any Bowel Movement Meaning Some Eliminating Organs Are Not Working. Typhoid/Malaria Maybe Present.
★★Four Days/A Week One Bowel Movement Means Stagnation of Lymphatic System.
★★Smelly Stool Meaning Complete or Partially Fermented Foods. (Cleanse the Liver Pls)
★★Mucus Stool Meaning Fermented Undigested Foods. While Increased Mucus in Your Sool Can Be Associated inflammatory bowel disease like Crohn's disease, or ulcerative colitis, or even colon cancer, especially if accompanied by blood or abdominal pain (Over intake of Sugar/Pls Reduce Milk)
Gassy Stool indicates Gallbladder troubles, Undigested Proteins or Liver Obstruction.
Unless You Are on Cleaning Diet, Your Stool Should Take The Form Of A Healthy Stool.
If You Understand This Technique You Will Spend Less Money In Lab.
Remember, Good Health is Not By Luck, But By Implicit Obedient to Divine And Health Laws.
You Maybe Skeptical As I Was When Dr. Espinet Taught Us This For The First Time in Sydney.
Your Stool is Your Health. No Wonder Major Laboratory Tests Are Done Using Your Stool.
I Have Proved This Beyond Doubt in Any Human I Have Come In Contact with Health wise.
While I Cannot Deliberate Upon Many Stools That People Pass Daily, Let Me Quickly Go Straight To Healthy Stool.
Consider These:
★★★Normal Healthy Stool★★★
★Should Take 3-Mins You Are Done.
★7 Mins 10mins Still Using The Toilet- You Are Not Well.
★Healthy Stool Should Be Long at Least One Foot Long.
★Light Yellow in Color Because of The Presence of Bile. Similar Colors Are ok.
★Bulk√
★Shaped or Shapeless √
★Brownish √
★Flouting on Water√
Why Should it Flout on Water?
★Because Bile is Oily, Oil is always Lighter Than Water. Meaning That Anything That Contains Oil Must Flout in Water√
Bile Stool is The Healthiest Stool Ever.
It Means Your Liver is Very Healthy.
★★Quality★★
It Should Be Soft. It is The Softness That Facilitate The Easy Passage.
All Is Not Well If You Experience The Following:
★If You Have News Papers/Magazines You Read In Your Toilet-Room, You're Not Well.
If You Browse on phone/Laptop While Toileting-You Are Constipating/ You Are Not Well.
Diameter (1½ or 2Inchis/is OK)
★Narrow or very Narrow pencil-like stool is Not A Good Sign Especially if It Mixes With Blood & Persists Up To 10-Days. It indicates Growth in The Colon. Tumor: Benign or Colon Cancer. (Stop All Animal Products Immediately and Go On Raw Food for Few Days)
White, Gray or Pale Color Stool Indicates:
Lack of Bile. (Cirrhosis, Hepatitis or Other Liver Diseases)
(Start Eating Peeled Apples, Watermelon and Pineapples to Cleanse The Liver)
Limit Cooked Food Drastically.
Tomatoes, Vegetables etc Present in Your Stool. Tells You That You Eat Hastily, Not Proper Mastication or Indigestion. (Chew Slowly and Eat With Grateful Heart. Don't Rush!!!)
Dry Hard Stool Meaning Your are Constipating. The Liver Has Extracted A Lot of Impurities Back To The System. Also Meaning Delayed Evacuation (You Need To Drink More Water)
★★Pieces Stool Stand For--
Complicated Digestive System.
You Have Food Allergies. Liver Problems.
★★Watery Stool Stands For Poor or Very Poor Digestive System.
★★Splash Stool Meaning Overeating, Wrong Combination of Foods, Eating Too Many Foods at Once. Compromised Digestive system.
★★Two/Three Days Without Any Bowel Movement Meaning Some Eliminating Organs Are Not Working. Typhoid/Malaria Maybe Present.
★★Four Days/A Week One Bowel Movement Means Stagnation of Lymphatic System.
★★Smelly Stool Meaning Complete or Partially Fermented Foods. (Cleanse the Liver Pls)
★★Mucus Stool Meaning Fermented Undigested Foods. While Increased Mucus in Your Sool Can Be Associated inflammatory bowel disease like Crohn's disease, or ulcerative colitis, or even colon cancer, especially if accompanied by blood or abdominal pain (Over intake of Sugar/Pls Reduce Milk)
Gassy Stool indicates Gallbladder troubles, Undigested Proteins or Liver Obstruction.
Unless You Are on Cleaning Diet, Your Stool Should Take The Form Of A Healthy Stool.
If You Understand This Technique You Will Spend Less Money In Lab.
Remember, Good Health is Not By Luck, But By Implicit Obedient to Divine And Health Laws.
WHAT IS MATURITY
I used to think that maturity was about age and physical development, how wrong I was. I have since found out that age is only but a number, This 👇🏾are description of *MATURITY*
1.... *Maturity* is when you accept other people the way they are and their level of maturity.
2.... *Maturity* is when you understand that your ideas are not always the best.
3.... *Maturity* is when you learn to let go even if it pains.
4... *Maturity* is when you are able to drop expectations from a relationship and give for giving sake.
5.... *Maturity* is when you understand that whatever positive things you do, you do for your own peace.
6... *Maturity* is when you stop proving to the world how RIGHT OR SUPERIOR you are.
7.... *Maturity* is when you stop comparing yourself with others because life is not a competition.
8.... *Maturity* is when you understand that you can't and shouldn't always get what you want every time.
9.... *Maturity* is when you are contented and satisfied with your life and yet aspiring to be better everyday..
10.... *Maturity* is when someone hurt you and you understand their attitude and stay clear, rather than trying to hurt them back.
11.... *Maturity* is when you start thinking about other people and not just yourself.
12.... *Maturity* is when you know you cant please everyone.
13.... *Maturity* is when you see things in different perspectives - far beyond the way they seem.
14.... *Maturity* is when you love more and judge less.
15.... *Maturity* is responsibility
16.... *Maturity* is Love
17.... *Maturity* is the application of wisdom and knowledge in humility..
18... *Maturity* is when you accept that your accomplishment, failures, destiny, reputations and virtually everything about your life depends on God's will and the choices you make and not pointing fingers at others.
19... *Maturity* is when someone hates you and you still pray for them to succeed.
20.... *Maturity* is knowing God, serving Him with all that you've got and pursuing His Kingdom no matter what people think or say...
HOW I WISH EVERYBODY COULD SHARE THIS EDUCATIONAL WISDOM!
1.... *Maturity* is when you accept other people the way they are and their level of maturity.
2.... *Maturity* is when you understand that your ideas are not always the best.
3.... *Maturity* is when you learn to let go even if it pains.
4... *Maturity* is when you are able to drop expectations from a relationship and give for giving sake.
5.... *Maturity* is when you understand that whatever positive things you do, you do for your own peace.
6... *Maturity* is when you stop proving to the world how RIGHT OR SUPERIOR you are.
7.... *Maturity* is when you stop comparing yourself with others because life is not a competition.
8.... *Maturity* is when you understand that you can't and shouldn't always get what you want every time.
9.... *Maturity* is when you are contented and satisfied with your life and yet aspiring to be better everyday..
10.... *Maturity* is when someone hurt you and you understand their attitude and stay clear, rather than trying to hurt them back.
11.... *Maturity* is when you start thinking about other people and not just yourself.
12.... *Maturity* is when you know you cant please everyone.
13.... *Maturity* is when you see things in different perspectives - far beyond the way they seem.
14.... *Maturity* is when you love more and judge less.
15.... *Maturity* is responsibility
16.... *Maturity* is Love
17.... *Maturity* is the application of wisdom and knowledge in humility..
18... *Maturity* is when you accept that your accomplishment, failures, destiny, reputations and virtually everything about your life depends on God's will and the choices you make and not pointing fingers at others.
19... *Maturity* is when someone hates you and you still pray for them to succeed.
20.... *Maturity* is knowing God, serving Him with all that you've got and pursuing His Kingdom no matter what people think or say...
HOW I WISH EVERYBODY COULD SHARE THIS EDUCATIONAL WISDOM!
WHERE DO YOU KEEP YOUR HANDPHONE
At the rate we are going, we might have to live life like in the stone age to
survive all the ills of modern technology. Pls read!
Where do you keep your Handphone normally?
This morning I heard a true and sad story about a woman who was always having miscarriages.
When the foetus gets to be 2-3 months old she loses it. This happened several
times over. The couple went to check with many doctors and at last one of
the doctors examined the dead baby and found that the baby's body cells
kept dying as the baby was growing in the womb until he/she could not
survive. his was because her uterus was affected by Handphone Radiation.
The doctor told her that she now has no chance to give birth to a healthy baby
because the radiation has affected her uterus so that the major portion of the
cells in her uterus have already died.
This happened because she has been keeping her handphone in her working jacket
so that the phone rested against just on the right spot of the uterus. She had
been wearing it like this for a few
years.
Please beware of this and take note if you don't want what has happened to
this woman to happen to you.
Dearest friends & family members,
Please do not ignore handphone radiation which will damage our health or body
organs. Please put away your handphone when ever you don't need it much.
Please do not keep your handphone near to the kidney position and pants
pocket as this will damage your genital area and affect your ability to father
a baby.
The other doctor also advised another friend to keep her handphone away from
her new born baby to avoid radiation damage to the baby's brain cells.
Do not let the baby or toddler play with the handphone. This is because the
small young baby or toddler is still very fragile and growing, so he/she is
much more vulnerable to radiation damage.
Please remember not to sleep together with your handphone or put it next to
your bed. Keep any other electronic goods (such as tvs) which also give off
radiation away from your bedroom to reduce risk as we have to sleep a few hours
every day in our bedroom at night.
Further, do not imagine that if you switch off the TV there will be no
radiation. Actually it is still around in your room. It is not advisable to
have even a small digital alarm clock close to your
head while sleeping.
Take Care of yourself and your loved ones.
Thank you
Please pass this on to your friends and family.
I would rather be careful than regret not knowing
THINGS TO TALK ABOUT IN COURTSHIP
The time of courtship is not the time for feeling of pecking and kissing. it is a serious matter. it is a time to talk and get it straight away. it is expected of your courtship to prepare you for marriage, but, nowadays, reverse is the case, the activities in courtship can never secure happy marriage life.There are lot of things to know and understand, and how can you know and understand if you don't talk. *Different Pictures of Courtships*
1. Mute courtships: these are the set of people that don't talk freely in there courtship, whereby, fiancé is acting in a strange manner to his fiancée and vice versa. It is not that they are deaf dump but they are not close in heart. The major cause of this is ignorance. Sometimes, Christian brothers and sisters practice this kind of courtship in the name of spirituality. Also, some people will not want to offend their partners may be because of position, age difference or wealth, and as a result of that they will be mute throughout their courtship life.
2. Talkative courtships: These are the set of people that talk in their courtship but without sense. They never talk right things. They are inclined in excessive talking, that is, always ready to talk even at length but you cannot hold any point. They talk freely about unimportant things in a friendly way. This kind of courtship is usually full of gossip and malice.
3. Flippant courtships: these are the set of people that joke too much in their courtship. They take things for granted and turn everything to child play. They are never serious with each other. Serious matters are not common in their discussion. They thought inappropriately and laugh on things that doesn't worth it. They are too playful, frolicsome, perky, lighthearted, giddy, frivolous and silly in nature. Their talks lack intellectual substance and things not worth serious consideration. Full of trivial discussions.
4. Flamboyant courtships: These are the set of people that believe everything is fun. They never talk to plan, they talk to spend. Too extravagant. They are full of eatry, clubbing, film house etc. They can never sit down at the round table to talk about progress in their courtship, but the next party to attend.
5. Constructive courtship: these are the set of people that construct their marital future with the content of their discussions. They are full of talks that are carefully considered and meant to be helpful to their marriage in the nearest future. Their talks, jokes, and fun are building them up for glorious marriage. They are polite and moderate in every sense of life. Well-mannered, socially superior to ordinary people and considered refined or cultured. They talk with grace, courtesy, love and have respect for each other. Maturity is written all over them. *Keys that can help you to talk constructively* 1. Interview: Always try to ask questions and make enquiry of what that looks ambiguous to you 2. Assessment: Always look back and see if what you have discussed is able to give you glorious home. Have you dealt with all issues that ought to be dealt with? Never go into the marriage if you are not sure. Have you talked about: 1. background 2. Do's and dont's 3. Weaknesses: e.g. snoring, eating habit e.t.c 4. Formal education: to what level? 5. Verbal skills: how does he/she talks
6. Expected roles of both individuals in the marriage: His roles as husband and father and her roles as wife mother of your children
7. Love and respect: to what extent does she respect or submit to you as her husband, and to what extent does he loves you as his wife.
8. Number of children
9. type of family planning
10. Gap between children
11. Child rearing view
12. Mental, social, psychological, spiritual, philosophy of life
13. Ways of dealing with issues
14. Talk about smoking, drinking, alcohol and coming home late
15. Night journey
16. involvement of in- laws and parental influence
17. Sense of humour: are you a person that doesn't laugh or joke, just study and pray every minute? talk about it now
18. Punctuality. To be continued.
1. Mute courtships: these are the set of people that don't talk freely in there courtship, whereby, fiancé is acting in a strange manner to his fiancée and vice versa. It is not that they are deaf dump but they are not close in heart. The major cause of this is ignorance. Sometimes, Christian brothers and sisters practice this kind of courtship in the name of spirituality. Also, some people will not want to offend their partners may be because of position, age difference or wealth, and as a result of that they will be mute throughout their courtship life.
2. Talkative courtships: These are the set of people that talk in their courtship but without sense. They never talk right things. They are inclined in excessive talking, that is, always ready to talk even at length but you cannot hold any point. They talk freely about unimportant things in a friendly way. This kind of courtship is usually full of gossip and malice.
3. Flippant courtships: these are the set of people that joke too much in their courtship. They take things for granted and turn everything to child play. They are never serious with each other. Serious matters are not common in their discussion. They thought inappropriately and laugh on things that doesn't worth it. They are too playful, frolicsome, perky, lighthearted, giddy, frivolous and silly in nature. Their talks lack intellectual substance and things not worth serious consideration. Full of trivial discussions.
4. Flamboyant courtships: These are the set of people that believe everything is fun. They never talk to plan, they talk to spend. Too extravagant. They are full of eatry, clubbing, film house etc. They can never sit down at the round table to talk about progress in their courtship, but the next party to attend.
5. Constructive courtship: these are the set of people that construct their marital future with the content of their discussions. They are full of talks that are carefully considered and meant to be helpful to their marriage in the nearest future. Their talks, jokes, and fun are building them up for glorious marriage. They are polite and moderate in every sense of life. Well-mannered, socially superior to ordinary people and considered refined or cultured. They talk with grace, courtesy, love and have respect for each other. Maturity is written all over them. *Keys that can help you to talk constructively* 1. Interview: Always try to ask questions and make enquiry of what that looks ambiguous to you 2. Assessment: Always look back and see if what you have discussed is able to give you glorious home. Have you dealt with all issues that ought to be dealt with? Never go into the marriage if you are not sure. Have you talked about: 1. background 2. Do's and dont's 3. Weaknesses: e.g. snoring, eating habit e.t.c 4. Formal education: to what level? 5. Verbal skills: how does he/she talks
6. Expected roles of both individuals in the marriage: His roles as husband and father and her roles as wife mother of your children
7. Love and respect: to what extent does she respect or submit to you as her husband, and to what extent does he loves you as his wife.
8. Number of children
9. type of family planning
10. Gap between children
11. Child rearing view
12. Mental, social, psychological, spiritual, philosophy of life
13. Ways of dealing with issues
14. Talk about smoking, drinking, alcohol and coming home late
15. Night journey
16. involvement of in- laws and parental influence
17. Sense of humour: are you a person that doesn't laugh or joke, just study and pray every minute? talk about it now
18. Punctuality. To be continued.
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